Tuesday, 14 September 2010
Progress Report 14/09/2010
This morning I managed to complete 34 lengths, giving me a total so far of 66 lengths, just over a mile. 21 more to go. Not quite time to put on the coffee and warm the croissants yet!
I feel quite tired of course, but I had a COLD shower (yes you did read that correctly) after the swim and feel quite refreshed as well. More news tomorrow. I shared the lane swimming with a triathlete this morning, talking about his open water swimming. I felt quite useless as a comparison, until I remembered that with this challenge, distance is more important than speed. Which is just as well as he was completing the lengths in about one third of the time it was taking me :)
Thanks for reading!
Monday, 13 September 2010
Aspire Channel Swim 2010
If you check out my fundraising page (see the link next to this post) I have managed so far to raise £40 towards my target of £100 so I am pleased with that, and hope more people will be able to donate to this very worthwhile cause.
So.. how did I do?
I managed to complete 32 lengths, that's half a mile. That is also a personal best distance for 2010 for me, so I am very pleased with that. I am tired now, of course, but I am sure I will be able to get back in the pool tomorrow.
Thanks for reading!
Latest!
Tribute
Today I lost my best friend of the last nearly 20 years. Kathy was a lovely woman. Kind, generous, understanding, fun to be with, no nonsense or airs and graces, she was always there when I needed her. I know she was such a good friend to very many people, neighbours, family and friends alike, and will be very sadly missed by them all.
It is very hard now to go into town, remembering all the times we would bump into each other without planning it, but then go and have a coffee together and enjoy each other's company. Also the many times we met by arrangement for meals out, movies, day trips, nights at my home with a bottle of wine and good conversation, even a shared trip to London - those will not happen again and I find it hard to think about the big hole Kathy's loss leaves in my life.
I know she is at peace now, and I am grateful for that. She and I both believe in the resurrection, so we look forward to a happy time when we can see each other again.
Sleep well Kathy, love always.
Thursday, 2 September 2010
Target reached!
I have 20% to target donations already, thank you! Please see whether you are able to make a small donation to Aspire by using my fundraising page (see the link at the top of my blog - Justgiving)
Maulberry our youngest cat is not well today. I have made an appointment for her with the vet for next Wednesday, and if she is no better, they may need to give her antibiotics :(
Our Japanese lesson today went well, despite me not being able to remember the Kanji for today. I really need to get down to some serious revision of the Kanji, as we are up to 150 now and if I am not careful I will not be able to progress.
Liz came round with the new husky puppy, Katana, and she is really beautiful. I hope she isn't too much of a handful!
That's about all the news for now. Take care one and all ^.^
Wednesday, 1 September 2010
Busy Busy Busy...
After swimming, Eli and I had lunch in Mama's restaurant in Scotch Street. Finally we did the grocery shopping and went home. A lovely sunny day, spoilt a little by learning that Ian Harte has left Carlisle for Reading. I can't blame him wanting to play in the Championship when he gets the offer, but we will be sad to see him go.
On the plus side, Ben Marshall is coming back on loan for the first half of the season, and we have a new loanee from Leeds, Lubomir Michalik, a Slovakian International defender who should give us some height in the back line.
We shall see how things go on Saturday against Swindon. A bit unsettling for everyone, and likely to cause a few misunderstandings on the pitch until they get used to each other, but I am sure things will work out.
Liz seems to have gained a husky puppy and lost her man (due to what, I don't know.) so I am sure there will be lots to catch up on when she gets home sometime tomorrow. It is never dull here!
Tuesday, 31 August 2010
Great Footie Day!
Eli and I went to Brunton Park to see Carlisle play Preston in the totes.com league cup this afternoon. Goals from Ryan Bowman and the new trialist Yannik Salem saw us through to a clear and well deserved victory. I look forward to the home match against Swindon on Saturday ^.^
After the match Eli and I did some shopping then stopped by Liz's to mop up the lake in the kitchen (freezer is defrosting due to power outtage).
Home finally and time to catch up with blogs and such like.
Mine's a cup of hot water please....
Monday, 30 August 2010
Score!
I returned home and got changed before heading out with Eli to Brunton Park. It was open training day today with an opportunity to meet the players and get autographs and photographs so we were really looking forward to it. Eli had her photo taken with Matty Robson, her favourite player.
I got changed again when we got home. Hazel and I went out on the ministry today, starting off with a call on one of my neighbours, then some street witnessing in town. As the continental market was there for the Bank Holiday, the city centre was very busy, so I was able to speak to a few people. Hazel and I had a nice time, even though we didn't get much response.
When I got home, our friend (ex-neighbour) Steve called round for a cup of tea in the garden and to spend some time with his favourite cat, Maulberry. She used to go visit him when he lived in Charles Street, and she misses him now that he has gone to Longtown to live, so it was nice for him to come round for a quick visit to see her again.
Finally, after getting changed (again) Eli and I went round to Liz's house to check everything was ok. The power was off, so we took the stuff from the fridge and freezer to bring to our home to keep here, as she will not be returning until Wednesday. I don't think the ice cream will last that long ^.^
Cooking dinner now...
Sunday, 29 August 2010
New Personal Best
This afternoon I attended a meeting for worship at the Kingdom Hall and we had a lovely talk about the benefit of meditating on things to gain deeper insight and understanding.
It is a very windy day, and I had to fight the gale all the way home on the mobility scooter, and felt really cold when I finally arrived home.
Tomorrow being a Bank Holiday I may go swimming but I will have to be early because Eli and I are going to Brunton Park for 10.30am for the open training session with Carlisle United Football Club.
Catch you later!
Saturday, 28 August 2010
Ahead of Target!
Update re: Aspire Channel Swim 2010 training - This morning I swam 14 x 25m lengths, a new pb for the year. I am now ahead of my target working towards 24 x 25m lengths per day for the charity challenge next month.
Re: Mum - had text today asking if I had phoned her (I did, but nobody picked up) informing me that the signal may be better in Cork.....! (Does she think she has told me about this trip before? Even more worrying, HAS she told me about this trip before and I have completely forgotten?... argh.. I can't think about it now!)
Re: Carlisle United Football Club - there is an open training day with opportunities to meet the players and get autographs ^.^ on Monday from 10.30 to 12.30 at Brunton Park. Eli and I will be going, naturally ^.^
I have guests coming over for lunch so I must cut this short and get back to my cooking.
Best wishes
Friday, 27 August 2010
Just one of those days...
Then the bad stuff started. Alex is in hospital (heart attack) in an inaccessible part of West Cumbria. I have no spare funds and no transport and nobody to take me there so it is sit at home and fret time when I should BE THERE.
Next.. when trying to find info in order to get sorted ref Alex.. found out that my Mum has gone to Galway. As far as I knew, she was going to be in Yorkshire for a few days then back home. I wonder why, when I am the one doing the research into the IRISH side of the family tree.. nobody bothers to inform me ahead of time that such a visit is likely??? And why do I only find out because I take the trouble to call one of my family? They ALL have phones, mobiles and the internet, and I never get told anything unless it is bad news for ME, and not always then.
Maybe because nobody gives a damn about telling me anything anyway.
In future, my family (and I use the term advisedly) can just get on with it.
So here we are on a Friday evening, miles away from the one member of my family I can say without reservations treats me like family, while he lies in hospital with almost nobody to visit him!
Life can be the pits sometimes.
Thursday, 26 August 2010
The thing about personal best is...
The first year I took part with a team named "Swim Like Bricks", chosen because between myself, Eli and Joan, the team members, none of us could swim far or well. Eli and I had only just started going to the pool. My personal best was 2 lengths at the time, and Eli could about manage a width of the pool. Joan was our star member with a personal best of about 40 lengths. To cut a long story short, we completed the distance as a team, and individually we managed 22 miles for Eli and myself. Joan completed 20 miles before having to retire due to ill health.
Last year the same team (this time named "Fantasy Starfish") plus a few good friends, took part again, and completed the distance as a team. I managed to finish the 22 miles individually as well. Eli was recovering from major surgery and was not able to do very much, but she still supported us well. Joan and I have since had deteriorating health, and have not been back to swimming for almost the entire year since the event.
That brings us to this year's swim. I am going solo for this event as Eli will not be well enough to take part, neither will Joan. I have begun my training and so far (this morning) managed a personal best of 10 lengths - a distance of 250m. To complete the 22 miles I have to swim 1416 lengths of our local 25m pool. I plan to do about 24 lengths mondays to fridays with weekends off. This gives me the opportunity to catch up if I have to miss a day through poor health or for other reasons.
Why am I telling you this?
Two reasons:-
1) Aspire do wonderful work, and I want more people to know about the charity and about the Channel Swim.
2) I want you to support me with messages of encouragement on this blog, and , if you can afford it, I want you to please make a small donation to the charity using my fundraising page online at www.justgiving.com/JosieMAlderton-MakingWaves
It doesn't matter how small an amount you donate, they all add up!
Thanks for reading. Please visit my fundraising page soon, and check back on this blog for regular updates about the Swim.
Wednesday, 25 August 2010
slow progress is still progress ^.^
I had coffee with my friend Tina, then completed a costume alteration when I got home. I spent some time in the back yard in the sunshine while the rabbits had a run outside for an hour or so.
Back to Japanese study for me.
Take care all.
Tuesday, 24 August 2010
How to lose track....
So.. I didn't go swimming, when I could have. I didn't go shopping, when I could have. I did go to the only restaurant I was pretty sure would be open near to our home (Woodrow Wilson) for tea.... and got stuck there for the duration because of the really heavy rainfall that decided to grace us with its bounty of spare water.
The only redeeming feature of this weather was that I decided I didn't want to get soaked going home so I would rather go see a movie (next door) and hope the weather improved by the time I came out (which it did).
I saw "Salt" - the new Angelina Jolie film, and made my way home at about half past ten.
So, today... I had to get back on track!
Swimming update. I managed my pb for the year of six lengths today. Tiring, and a bit slow compared to last year, but at least I did manage to complete it in 7 minutes.
Home for lunch, fed cats, put on laundry... this afternoon I have to study Japanese for my lesson on Thursday.
Busy busy busy..... ^.^
Thursday, 19 August 2010
A busy thursday..
At 3pm we met with Sarah and Chris for a curry before heading home. This evening I sorted out some fabric to cover some cushions to turn my bed into a daybed. As I use my living room as a bedroom as well, I need to make it look more like a living room during the day.
Tonight Ray picked up the costumes and we discussed some more problems with the family tree (his father and my mother are first cousins) then I finally was able to come online to catch up with my blogging!
I think my bed is calling me.....
Wednesday, 18 August 2010
Skype
I love this technology stuff!
It's been too long.....
Never mind. I have a few weeks to train before the Channel Swim starts, so I just have to do my best and build up slowly.
Bye for now
Aspiring Channel Swimmer
Those of you who have been around my facebook/twitter/blogs for a while will know this is my third year. In previous years I have been part of a team [2008 was with "Swim Like Bricks" and 2009 was with "Fantasy Starfish"] but this time I am going solo.
The Aspire Channel Swim starts next month and takes place over 12 weeks. 22 miles to swim, which I will be doing in The Pools, Carlisle. Please visit my fundraising page regularly to keep up to date with how I am doing. If you have the means to sponsor me even better, every penny helps and will be gratefully received.
Obviously, the swim will be taking over the blog rather a lot over the next 12 weeks, so you will also be able to track my progress here, and in the usual places (twitter, facebook).
I apologise in advance if it gets a bit repetitive! (so does swimming up and down a pool for 22 miles!)
best wishes
Radio Cumbria
Well it seems I am in demand again by Radio Cumbria, this time for a brief interview choosing a piece of music for the Juke Box on Kevin's show at 3pm, and chatting about things such as learning Japanese and why I like "Drumming Song" from "Lungs" the album by Florence and the Machine.
I hope you all get a chance to hear me live on radio :)
Friday, 30 July 2010
Radio Cumbria "Little Cumbria" anniversary
Monday:-
In September last year I took part in the Aspire Channel Swim for the second year running. This annual event takes place in swimming pools all around the country to raise money for Aspire, a charity which helps people regain their independence following illness or injury that leaves them wheelchair bound. The objective is to swim the distance of the English Channel in your local pool, in a twelve week period between September and December. It's 22 miles, so here in Carlisle that means over 1400 lengths of the 25m pool. I really enjoyed the challenge, and was able to complete the distance in the time allowed. More importantly, I was able to raise some money for the charity, and made some good friends at the pool. I plan to take part again this year.
Tuesday:-
After many years considering the idea, Eli and I decided we would like to adopt a cat. We wanted to give a loving home to an old cat nobody else wanted, and decided to visit Animal Concern. They had an old cat that might be suitable. Eighteen years of age, never allowed in the house by her previous owner and fending for herself all her life, Foxx seemed like the ideal candidate. Who could deserve a home more? But wait, what about Zinnia? Born blind in one eye, now eleven and in need of a new home, having been shot by an air rifle in the throat, surely she deserved a loving home too? Eli could not decide between the two, especially when a large black cat crawled into her lap and promptly fell asleep. Maulberry, a three year old stray, had been in the refuge for six months and had been rejected because of her size (can you imagine?). So hard to choose between them! We ended up adopting all three. Our home is now divided into three 'territories', but Foxx, who is the smallest, rules the roost.
Wednesday:-
A definite highlight has to be the trip to Wembley to see Carlisle United contest the Johnsons Paint Trophy Final against Southampton. It was a very early start, a very long journey and a large expense from our fixed budget, but none of that mattered when we arrived at the stadium. The staff were pleasant and helpful and showed Eli and I to our seats in the disabled section behind and above the goal, to the left as the teams come out of the tunnel. We were treated to a couple of warm up games to lead up to the moment when we saw the teams come out to warm up for the match. I don't know how they felt but I know Eli and I were very proud of them to have got to the Final. The opening ceremony went by quickly while we waited for the moment of truth. As it happened, we didn't win the game. That didn't matter. It was a fantastic day out, and one we will remember for many years to come. Well done Carlisle. Same again this season, please! (maybe even win it this time).
Thursday:-
I am very fortunate to have three daughters and three grandchildren, so it is hard for me to imagine the distress felt by those couples who find they are unable to have a family. I know we live in a time of austerity and government spending cuts, but it would be hard to refuse help to those in that situation. My brother and sister-in-law had been trying to have a child without success for years. They had eventually been offered IVF treatment but had not yet had it when family circumstances suddenly being changed led to them fostering three girls. A few months later, to everyone's amazement and delight, they are now expecting a little boy of their own. Congratulations and best wishes to them both!
Friday:-
Eli and I have been learning Japanese since April and plan to take our GCSE exams in the subject next year. Our teacher, Harumi, comes to our home once a week to give our lessons, and we have become good friends. She and her husband Peter invited us to their home in the countryside near Roadhead for a meal with their family. We were collected by Peter and on arriving at the house we removed our shoes (standard practice in Japanese homes) and went to the conservatory to have our Japanese lesson. Afterwards, hungry and pleasantly exhausted with the effort of so much concentration, we all sat down to a home-cooked Japanese meal of miso soup, sushi and apple pie with ice cream. Delicious! Lovely company, lovely food and a definite highlight of the year. Domo arigatou, Harumi San!
If you get the chance to listen, there will be three people each day giving their diary entry, or in my case, the highlights above. It is an insight into what Cumbrians are up to.
Friday, 23 July 2010
A Japanese evening
Yesterday afternoon, Eli and I went to the home of our tutor, Harumi Sensei, to have our Japanese lesson. After an hour of very hard work (yes it was difficult doing adjectives, modifying and affirmative and negative, present and past tense) which we nevertheless enjoyed very much, we then joined the family for dinner. We had miso soup and sushi, followed by apple pie and ice cream. Everything was homemade and delicious! We had a very pleasant evening.
Today the sun is shining, my groceries have been delivered, the rabbits and cats fed and watered, and I am waiting for my carer to come and prepare an early lunch. I have a funeral to attend this afternoon, so I need to be ready in good time.
Tomorrow Eli and I plan to take at least one of my grandchildren, probably Nicky, to see 'Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief' at the cinema at the Kids a.m. show.
Enjoy your day everyone.
Bye for now.
Thursday, 15 July 2010
how time flies...
Monday, 5 July 2010
The world is full of acronyms....
First the boring stuff. Most doctors either know little about it or nothing at all. They know OF it, and have various ways of making you feel worse without really helping. A few enlightened souls actually admit to not being able to do anything to help or cure. The very rare gems (I hope I have found one) actually do have something that may help, and even reverse this dreadful condition.
FMS - Fibromyalgia syndrome - has been known in various guises since the middle ages but until the middle of the last century was usually called Fibrositis. It was considered one of the things getting older could bring you, along with arthritis, senility and other wonderful conditions. It affects everyone differently but usually includes bodywide pain in joints, muscles, bones, brain and anywhere else you can think of, severe fatigue, irritable bowel and bladder, nausea, vertigo, headaches, visual impairment and a host of other stuff I lump together under the heading of "FMS other". Oh did I mention forgetfulness??
Nowadays you may find a GP who has either
1) heard of it but knows nothing about it, or
2) uses the latest (i.e. ten years out of date) methods of treating the symptoms (which don't work) but believes they work, or
3) is knowledgable and honest enough to realise that the previous methods don't work but it's all they have (they think)
That is all going to change...
My GP admitted on my next to last visit that the only help she could offer was that set out in the NHS guidelines, and refer me (yet again) to a rheumatologist. I pointed out that on the last few occasions I had seen such a specialist he had told me there was nothing he could do for me. The 'treatments' on offer of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and mild exercise had been tried and had failed. Physiotherapy, Hydrotherapy, anti-depressants (which rot your teeth so they crumble away, by the way) and various other things had also proved useless as long-term solutions. She was completely at a loss how to help me. I told her that being the case I would go and research myself and see what I could find.
The internet is a blessing and a curse. I found something that may work, and will try it, but I also found many people STILL advocating either that FMS is all in your head, or that if you only eat right, get enough sleep and regular exercise you can lead a perfectly normal life. Yeah right!
So here's the deal...
I have discovered the Guaifenesin protocol for FMS (Google it, its fascinating) and will be starting it as soon as my medication arrives from the US. It isn't available here on prescription, surprise, surprise. I have informed my GP on my last visit that I will be starting it and combining it with a low GI Diet. I printed out for her the UK Fibromyalgia website information on the protocol with dosages, diet and so on, and will keep her informed of my progress. I am sure there will BE progress!
So wish me well, literally, please! And watch this space for updates on the situation.
One day, I hope to be able to walk a mile in MY shoes :)
Monday, 28 June 2010
Radio Diary
Monday - My usual carer was on holiday, so her replacement arrived to make sure I was up, showered, dressed and breakfasted (or at least had a cup of coffee) ready for the day. Not much hope of it today as the medication I am on makes me feel nauseous and exhausted all the time. It is supposed to lessen the risk of an angina attack, but it seems to do this by lessening my ability to be perpendicular for more than five minutes at a time. Eli and I had lunch at Mamas restaurant before doing some shopping and visiting the library to borrow a Japanese language course. I have been learning Japanese for a while. When we got home I got into bed and played computer games.
Tuesday - The carer arrived very early this morning but I did not really want to get up.. these pills are the absolute pits. However.. after a while I did get dressed and Eli and I went into the city centre to pay some bills and do some shopping. We had lunch in the Old Arcadian. On the way home Eli picked up a new computer game and then we had a quiet time together for a couple of hours. We headed to Brunton Park for the football match against Yeovil, which Carlisle won. We try and go to as many home games as we can. We have season tickets and we are going to Wembley on the supporters coach. It will be a very early start as we put the clocks forward that weekend!
Wednesday - Eli went to do my banking and pay some bills. I didn’t feel up to it so I stayed in bed. We had lunch at home then at 3pm I went to the Doctor as I needed a repeat prescription. I was feeling a bit better so we went into the city centre via my other daughter’s house to drop off some post, bumped into my grandson on the way. We did some shopping then looked around for some jeans for Eli. Several shops later.. still no jeans. She couldn’t find any that were affordable or that fitted well (or both). We were exhausted so we popped into Subway for a break (and so as not to need to make tea later). We must REALLY have been tired. We fell asleep by 8 o’clock!
Thursday - Eli and I met up with Chris and Sarah for lunch in Woodrow Wilson. The very friendly waiter made us smile. The food was good and so was the company. Went into the city centre to try and find Eli these elusive jeans. TKMaxx came up trumps .. two pairs were suitable and purchased. Also cat food and litter and sundry shopping .. then into New Look for a blue t-shirt for Eli to wear to the Johnsons Paint Trophy Final at Wembley. Naturally, they had an offer on so we ended up buying 3 pairs for £12! Not bad. My grandson came round after school as his Mum was out walking the husky puppy, and as it was raining, he stayed with us until she came to pick him up.
Friday - This morning we are broadband enabled.. eventually.. after much muttering and grumbling and re-reading of instructions and plugging and unplugging.. my iMac is now ourMac until we can get Eli’s computer attached to the router. Finally... emails load before you can make a cup of tea, facebook updates more than once an hour and twitter is as quick as it sounds. Progress... I think. My weekly carer came to take me out in the car, so I went to get an ethernet cable, then a much deserved coffee and cake. It gave Eli some quality time with my computer. Now that we have a fast connection in my room, I may get to see more of her. Happy days! The only thing that worries me now is.... what’s she going to burn for supper?
Thursday, 24 June 2010
Hi honey, I'm home!
Wednesday, 9 June 2010
Japanese diary Day Six - Wednesday
Japanese diary Day Five - Tuesday
Japanese diary Day Four - Monday
Sunday, 6 June 2010
Japanese diary Day Three - Sunday
Japanese diary Day Two - Saturday
Saturday, 5 June 2010
Japanese diary Day One - Friday
What are you doing now?
Friday, 21 May 2010
Twitter Lists and How to Speed your Tweets!
Friday-Frustration-Fish & Chips-Fifth Element!
Wednesday, 19 May 2010
Progress!
Saturday, 15 May 2010
Decisions...
Saturday, 8 May 2010
Here we go!
Sunday, 2 May 2010
Beatrix Potter country - for Japanese visitors
Wednesday, 28 April 2010
Window dressing

Above is the view at night. In winter I hang curtains on a pole across the top of the window.

I decided that I could not afford rice paper shoji for the windows, and looked around for an alternative which was cheap but which offered privacy while allowing light through. I chose artists' canvasses because they met these criteria and were lightweight for fixing on curtain wire at each side of the window frame. They are attached by the wire through metal 'eyes' on the rear of the canvasses to enable me to slide the canvasses up and down to allow access to the sash windows for opening, and to be versatile to allow differing amounts of light into the room.


Saturday, 24 April 2010
apologies for the delay in posting....
Saturday, 17 April 2010
First Japanese lesson
Monday, 29 March 2010
Wembley
28th March 2010 - Johnston's Paint Trophy Final at Wembley Stadium, London
